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The Law Of Attraction: How to Get What You Want


What people say or do to you is not as important as how you respond to it. The Law of Attraction helps you choose how you respond, and learning how to put that response on automatic. You can train yourself to have the same response that generates positivity and joy no matter what the occassion.

When things go wrong between people, not much else can go right. When you have a bad run in with someone it sets the tone for the rest of the day. We have the ability to change the reaction we in an instant according to the words we use to describe the situation. It all hass to do with the labels we place on situations.

Did you know that there is no bad news or great news. News is netural. It is how you percieve the news that places it in the great or bad category. So the next time you hear 'bad' news try a different adjective to define it. Instead, try to define it as 'doable' or 'managable' or 'opportunity'. Then once you can feel more positive about the news try even more positive adjectives like 'great for business', or 'clean slate' or 'start over' or 'new opportunity for my dreams to come alive'. Try to get where you can feel joy in the news.

I'll give you an example. I loved my mother-in-law. She allowed me to believe the way I wanted to believe. My own family had rejected me because of my beliefs. So, we became close friends. Well, after a long time suffering from hip replacement complications along with other problems she died. My sisters-in-law did not even tell us she died they had a lawyer write us and tell us if we wanted to contest the will to show up at the court on such-n-such date and time. It didn't even say why! We knew though. I was so angry for the lack of courtesy and respect from our family and that I did not even get to say bye to my dear friend. Then later, much later, I decided that being mad at my husband's sisters was not benefitting me at all. It was making me depressed and bitter. So I decided to adjust my thinking. I forgive them. I decided to be grateful for the time I did have with her and the wisdom she passed on and decided to share that experience with my children when they got old enough. Instead of the news being 'devestating' I turned it into at first 'at least she is not suffering' news, then 'remeber when' news, then into 'great' news to 'awesome' news. I did this because it helped me to see and finally understand how awesome her life had made mine.

Everyone can do the same thing. You must first decided that you feel horrible thinking about the news you got as 'bad'. Then you must choose to find a better way to look at it. Thirdly, you can ask some questions:
What is bad about this news?
Why do I think it's bad?
What could I use from this news to add value to my life?
What potential benefits can come from this news?
How can you benefit from this news?
How can you use this news to benefit others?

Now you know how to accept news. Next, you can use The Law Of Attraction to help you deal with any difficult situation. Just remember it is your response to the situation that either attracts what you want or attracts what you don't want.

Action Steps:
1. Think of some 'bad news' you recieved lately. Now try to ask the questions from above to help you change your view of the news to something more positive.
2. Rewrite a bad day you had lately. write it as if you got exactly what you wanted from that day.
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