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Monday, June 13, 2011

Organize: Prepare To Do It Now

Defining The Term
A do-it-now person can be relied on to get work done on time. Such people do not put anything off until later, whether the issue involves taking immediate action, thinking matters through, or gathering the facts necessary to make a decision.

Creating Team Spirit
Do-it-now people create and maintain excellent relationships with their team, colleagues, and business partners.

Why do it now?
Some business people consistently meet their performance targets by dealing with the right issues in the right order. They are in control of bothe their personal and business lives, and their colleagues rely on them. Do-it-now people have to cope with stress in their business lives like everyone else, but their well-organized approach and ability to cope with the issues of the day in a timely fashion allow them to keep stress to a minimum. Finally, when do-it-now people go home,they leave work behind them entirely, knowing that their tasks are under control.

Think about the people you work with. Divide them into two groups, do-it-now and put-it-off. Thinks about the differences between the two groups. Do-it-now people will never need reminding that they have atask to complete, and they will tell you when to expect the taskto be done. Conversly, you never know where you are with people who put things off. If, for example they are having difficulty with a task, they fail to inform you and you find out that something has gone wrong only when the completion date has passed. Decide which category of person your colleagues would put you in.

Decide now to become a Do-it-Now person. This may require you to make significant changes to the way you work. Getting organized may involve changing you filing system, using a new system for making decisions, or implementing a new way of prioritizing actions. Remember, however, that it is also a matter of getting your attitutde right when taking control of your work.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Identify Your Creative Process

You see, the creative process is three steps.
The first step is you have to identify what is wanted and you can't help but do that. Preferences are born within you all day everyday. Contrast helps you to conclude. When you know what you do not want, what you do want shoots out of you like a rocket. Wheneve you know what you do not want, clarity about what you do wants comes forth in very vivid terms. So, step 1 is occurring all over the place.So, divide a piece of paper into two columns. On the left side conducive with your left brain, write all the things that you don't want. Just about 10 things. Then on the right side, conducive with your right brain, write the opposite of what you wrote on the left side. The right side is what you want to concentrate on. This is what you do want right now at this time, in this moment. Need some more encouragement go to http://dld.bz/loa for your 21-ay Challenge.

Step 2 is not your work. Source Energy will answer. The universe is listening and your cries will be heard. Allow the inner workings of this Law of Attraction to work its best at hearing you positive requests and experiencing your joy at what the universe has to offer. Be joyful in the moment for what you already have and let step 2 take care of itself.

Step 3 is your work. You must must be in a recivimg mode, you must be a vibrational match, you must be vibrationally equivalent. You must think about what makes you joyful and be present in that joy, livr that joy in order to raise your vibration. If you feel like you are not enough, then you recieve not enough. Because this is what you are vibrating. So take that negative feeling or thought whatever is making you feel that sinking feeling and write it down. On the right side of the page write what does make you day enjoyable, what makes you smile, and a positive alternative to what you wrote on the left side.

If you think, 'I should be more responsible.' Then write it down. On the right side paint pictures of when you were respomsible and the successes that came from you being responsible. You need to show yourself that you have had success in being responsible in the past. Then ask, 'What would it look like if I was more responsible?' and just enjoy the images that pop up.

this week, create your joy, remember your past successes and dwell on what future success will look like. If it brings a smile to your face and joy to your heart then dwell on those thoughts and you will raise your vibration to get what you want.

Monday, May 30, 2011

Dr. Brad Semp of Busyness.com

Come and talk a look at my next guest. The host of Busyness.com Dr. Brad Semp.

Monday, May 16, 2011

Networking to Build A strong Downline

Planning The Networking Process

In order to ensure maxium effectiveness of the networking process, it is essential that networkerd thoroughly plan at two different levels:
1. Macroplanning level
2. Microplanning level

Macroplanning refers to the overall planning of the preliminary steps that lead to the point of making effective networking phone calls. Such planning include the initial research phase used to identify specific target markets, the type of people who you want in your network including the skills that they will need to be a part of your network. The second component involves the identification and prioritization of the networker's primary social and business contacts that will be used to successfully gain access to targeted high rollers in the network marketing field.

Microplanning on the other hand, entails the detailed, advanced planning of each individual networking contact before it is made. It involves, among other things, an analysis of the networking contact's specific ability to contribute to your network and serves as the basis for formulating specific networking call objectives as an integral part of your networking strategy.

Macro Level Planning
Taking a radom or haphazard approach to employment networking can have serious consequences for the networker. It is critical to successful networking that people become very methodical and purposeful in their approach to networking.

Macro level planning is the first step in the networking planning process. It is macroplanning that serves to put in place the key building blocks essential to getting full mileage out of the networking process. There are six steps to such planning:
1. Identification of target market
2. Identification of target skills of prospects
3. Determination of how you want your network to run
4. Determination of your skills and talents you are willing to make available
5. Identification of high rollers in the MLM industry
6. Prioritation of those contacts.
Use this list to flesh out your plann and next time we will go over indetail how to put this list to work.

Thursday, April 28, 2011

The Law Of Attraction: What Do You Want?

Old Chinese Proverb: Quieting the chattering mind promotes directed action.

When you focus your thoughts on your Chief Aim (Your major objective in life) and ask yourself, 'Is this situation helping me or hindering me from my main goal?' or 'Is the end result of this situation going to bring me joy?' You will see that your path to success becomes more clearly defined.

Today, I want to concentrate on teaching you how to discover what you want. The key to success in using The Law Of Attraction is how you are feeling at any given moment. If you are feeling great, you will see the greatness all around you. If you are feeling bad and depressed you will see the world as depressing. So the key is to Rejoice in all situations.

Seeing the joy in your situation is quite hard at times. Especially if you're a victim of a natural disaster or just lost your job. I have been there I have weathered major illnesses, lose or home and job, the total exclusion from my family simply because I wanted to share the truth with you. What I did to combat all the depression was to ask, 'Now, that I have a new start, what can I create that would bring me joy?'

So no matter what occurs in life this simple question can set your mind for future success. Now, that I have a new start, what can I create that would bring me joy? This is your foundation. Next, you briefly take a look back at the disaster and ask, 'Did I do something that I need to see so I don't make the same mistake twice?' Now this question is only to get you focused on improvement, never to tear you down. If you lost your job to down sizing you could simply state that you will look more carefully at the company's books before joining, or look more closely at the company's reputation,etc. When it is a sickness there may have been some healthier choices that could allow you to gain a better state of health. So you can see that looking into possible mistakes can help you restore your strength. If you have problems seeing through the disaster I do have coaching one-on-one available. Just sign up for our newsletter at the side to gain more information.

In review, We need to know what we want. The key to gaining a clear picture is discovering what brings you joy. What makes you rejoice? Then have a creator attitude. This means even in disaster you need to focus on the clean slate, the new beginning, the awesome opportunity to start again, etc....

Think in the positive. Seek the support of family and friends who you feel joyful around. Do not seek out those who, when you leave their presence, you feel depressed and downcast or just a little put out. You want people who give an uplifting feeling, who encourage you to seek out what is best for your situation.

Next, seek to improve your moral character. Listen to Unlock The Human Potential http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mellisajonas
Here on the side bar is the radio show. Listen to the past shows and go to the show page and like and follow us for updates. In May we will be doing an entire series on Getting What You Want.

Action Steps:
1. Think of a situation that did not go as you wanted. Rewrite the situation as if it did go as you wanted. See the changes that you could use now.
2. Daily write 5 things you are grateful for. These need to be written in the morning and reread at night.
3. Sign up for the 21 DAY CHALLENGE http://dld.bz/MM88

The Law of Attraction Works For You

The Law Of Attraction: How to Get What You Want

What people say or do to you is not as important as how you respond to it. The Law of Attraction helps you choose how you respond, and learning how to put that response on automatic. You can train yourself to have the same response that generates positivity and joy no matter what the occassion.

When things go wrong between people, not much else can go right. When you have a bad run in with someone it sets the tone for the rest of the day. We have the ability to change the reaction we in an instant according to the words we use to describe the situation. It all hass to do with the labels we place on situations.

Did you know that there is no bad news or great news. News is netural. It is how you percieve the news that places it in the great or bad category. So the next time you hear 'bad' news try a different adjective to define it. Instead, try to define it as 'doable' or 'managable' or 'opportunity'. Then once you can feel more positive about the news try even more positive adjectives like 'great for business', or 'clean slate' or 'start over' or 'new opportunity for my dreams to come alive'. Try to get where you can feel joy in the news.

I'll give you an example. I loved my mother-in-law. She allowed me to believe the way I wanted to believe. My own family had rejected me because of my beliefs. So, we became close friends. Well, after a long time suffering from hip replacement complications along with other problems she died. My sisters-in-law did not even tell us she died they had a lawyer write us and tell us if we wanted to contest the will to show up at the court on such-n-such date and time. It didn't even say why! We knew though. I was so angry for the lack of courtesy and respect from our family and that I did not even get to say bye to my dear friend. Then later, much later, I decided that being mad at my husband's sisters was not benefitting me at all. It was making me depressed and bitter. So I decided to adjust my thinking. I forgive them. I decided to be grateful for the time I did have with her and the wisdom she passed on and decided to share that experience with my children when they got old enough. Instead of the news being 'devestating' I turned it into at first 'at least she is not suffering' news, then 'remeber when' news, then into 'great' news to 'awesome' news. I did this because it helped me to see and finally understand how awesome her life had made mine.

Everyone can do the same thing. You must first decided that you feel horrible thinking about the news you got as 'bad'. Then you must choose to find a better way to look at it. Thirdly, you can ask some questions:
What is bad about this news?
Why do I think it's bad?
What could I use from this news to add value to my life?
What potential benefits can come from this news?
How can you benefit from this news?
How can you use this news to benefit others?

Now you know how to accept news. Next, you can use The Law Of Attraction to help you deal with any difficult situation. Just remember it is your response to the situation that either attracts what you want or attracts what you don't want.

Action Steps:
1. Think of some 'bad news' you recieved lately. Now try to ask the questions from above to help you change your view of the news to something more positive.
2. Rewrite a bad day you had lately. write it as if you got exactly what you wanted from that day.
3. Listen to http://dld.bz/Potential or on the sidebar click the Blog Talk Radio icon and listen to the latest show.
4. Join our Free Coaching Newsletter in the side bar,too. http://mellisajonas.blogspot.com

Until next time, create your own future.

The Law of Attraction Mastermind


Let the Law of Attraction Mastermind Mentors Help You Crush Your Limiting Beliefs, Crash Through Mental Roadblocks and Effortlessly Glide Past the Landmines 'Society,' the World and the Doubters Have Put in Place to Keep You Down... 
The Law of Attraction Mentors can help you manifest everything you desire… And the truth is, there aren’t more than a handful of people out there who have the experience to pull it off. These teachers have spent years (in some cases decades) ‘battling’ with themselves, with the ‘doubting Thomases’ in both friends and family members, with ‘scientific facts’ that say it’s just not possible…
…and, they’ve come out on top with a pile of proven successes (but, more importantly, the painful failure, years of chasing their own tails and staying on course when it seemed absolutely foolish to keep believing – so they can help you avoid the failure, stagnation and pitfalls)…
You see, no matter WHAT problem you face, someone has already solved it using the Law of Attraction. In fact, many thousands have solved it. Now, if someone suffers from one of these problems, they suffer unnecessarily. The solution is there. It’s already been proven.
Why suffer unnecessarily?
And, if you have a dream, a desire to create a better lifestyle for you and your loved ones and the world, you must know, others have already done that, too, using the Law of Attraction and the Secret Techniques of the Manifestation Masters…
If you’re ready, this is the opportunity for that hands-on masterminding help (from people who’ve actually done it!) that will change everything for you…
Dear Friend,
Hi, it’s Jason.
It’s late as I write this. I can’t sleep, because I’m so excited about the launch of this new “Law of Attraction Mastermind” membership program. My mind is in overdrive imagining all the amazing things we’re going to be able to do together.
This is a very rare program and in order to give you the special attention we want to give you we’ll need to limit how many people can join… and there are a lot of people who desperately want one of the few membership slots available.
In fact, the doors to this special members-only Mastermind will most likely close on Sunday, or even sooner if the membership slots are completely sold out.

After that, we’ll only be adding new members under two conditions: 1) We add more qualified Law of Attraction Mentors and 2) To replace people who have, for whatever reason, dropped out of the program.
So, you need to read this now… and you need to consider all the reasons this is (or is not) right for you, and decide soon because once the slots are taken up, that’s it. The doors close.

This is like no other program you’ve ever experienced or been involved in. Instead of simply reading an eBook or listening to an audio program and struggling to implement it in your life by yourself, you’ll be part of a group all discovering and ‘working’ and learning together, mentored by a group of people just like you who have already put this principle to work successfully.

With their backs to the wall, noses bloodied, on the verge of utter defeat, these people ignored the “evidence” of the world and instead put their faith in something much greater than the world… a Higher Power, their Beingness, the absolute power of the All-Pervading Awareness… and they turned it around, time and time again.

Once they had a small success, they didn’t rest or remain satisfied, they poured it on until they became effortless and automatic manifestors.
To them, every problem appears as mere “Child’s Play” now…
Do you believe that you can get more out of life? Or, are you doomed to your current circumstances? No matter what you want, whether it's a dream home, millions of dollars in income, the love of a significant other, the ability to release all negativity and experience the Oneness of all or anything else you can imagine , you canhave it...
And, The Law of Attraction Mastermind will show you how, by using the innate power of your own Mind.
Every two weeks you’ll receive a new lesson from a successful LOA Mentor on the LOA Mastermind private membership blog. The lessons won’t be real long but they will have MEAT to them.
Each lesson is designed to crush mental barriers thus releasing your innate manifestation power. It will be immediately applicable to your life. The exercises cement the ideas and skills into your mind.
Now, here’s where it gets real interesting. Everyone receives the same lessons at the same time. The program is interactive so if you have a question you can post it in the members-only forum immediately and get a quick response. You and others in the mastermind can post observations, tips and successes.
Not only will you be getting World Class Mentoring, you’ll have a support network of like-minded people on the way up, just like you.
If you get stuck we’ll work with you to keep you moving along. You see, you probably don’t need more information. What you really need is someone to help you crush your limiting beliefs, help you crash through mental roadblocks and effortlessly glide past the landmines ‘society’, the world and the doubters have put in place to keep you down.
The goal of the program is to transform the contents and makeup of your own mind so you can effortlessly Manifest everything you desire!


 With “The Law of Attraction Mastermind Membership Program” you’ll receive:
Two insightful lessons each month on the LOA Mastermind private blog. (These will be unique lessons created specifically for LOA Mastermind Members.)
Questions answered on the members-only forum. (I considere this to be one of the greatest features of the program, one well placed comment or word could shift things around for you springing you into incredible wealth, health and relationship mastery.)
The support, enthusiasm and bonding of a peer group who are also on their way “to the top.” (This is networking with people who only want to see you succeed like they do... if you ever felt like you're alone in really trying to master this wonderful Law then you no longer need to be!)
Real world advice from people who’ve already overcome problems similar to yours and who’ve manifested the lifestyle you desire.
Bonus audios, videos and lessons from world-class LOA Mentors
Teleseminars and webinars to help you achieve mastery.
Because of the nature of this program, I can only accept a limited number of people into the Mastermind program. This is to make sure each person can get their questions answered. We have a limited number of membership slots and once those are gone I’m pulling this page down. I’m thinking it will take only about 3 days to fill the membership slots.
As much as I've tried to let you know just how dedicated I am to making this real for you I know from experience that not everyone will take me up on this offer of my knowledge, expertise and time.
Although that's okay with me from a business standpoint, it still bothers me as a teacher and a coach and someone who's been where you are.
You see, I know how much these techniques have changed the lives of the people that use them.
Because of this I just hate to think that someone won't take advantage of this offer from me because I failed in some way to explain it or omitted something that would have made you say,
"Yes, Jason, I definitely want this for myself!"
So, I got together with a few friends and brainstormed why someone might not take advantage of this and make the investment. Here's what we came up with:
"I've spent loads of money on tapes, books and even seminars before but not done anything with it."
So have I. But, this is totally different. I'll be there encouraging, cajoling and supporting you the entire way. I'm committed to seeing it through and I'll put myself to the test mentally, physically and spiritually to see that you make the most out of this. Remember, this is a Mastermind. We won't be in the same room. But, we'll be on the same page. I'll never be more than an email of forum post away and the assignments will insure that you get maximum benefit.
"I don't have time for this: my life is too hectic!"
Are you living the life of your dreams? Sure it will take a bit of time each day. But, with some prudent juggling I'm sure anybody can find another 20-25 minutes per day when the stakes are so high and the benefits so great.
"I think I already know most of this material."
If you've been studying this type of thing and are aware of all the major "Gurus" you may know some of this information from a theoretical standpoint. But, this Mastermind Membership program is unique because it teaches you how to apply it directly to your specific situations as well as giving you direct feedback.
However, knowing it is one thing but being a Master is another matter. Most individuals need someone who has taught others to guide and work with them in order to break into a new realm. This is no different.
Pro Football players have coaches. Pro Tennis players have coaches. They have them because they know that a coach is going to keep them moving when they might have otherwise given up or slacked off. A coach is going to make sure the player has a great chance of taking home the Grand Prize when they compete in the big game.
"I'd like to take you up on your offer but it sounds too good to be true."
I agree. It does sound too good to be true. But I have a life full of personal experiences that say it is true.
You CAN have everything you desire. You CAN build the life of your dreams. 
Imagine for a moment, your ideal life. How would you feel inside if you were living it?
All that and more really can be yours.
I understand you may be skeptical. After all, you probably have friends, family and associates that would think you were crazy for even thinking along these lines. I can only ask you this one question.
"How many of them are living the life of their dreams?"
So, it's up to you.
Six weeks from now, you can be nothing more than 6 weeks older, or you can be well on your way to a lifestyle you could only previously dream about.
You decide.
Will you click the sign up link now? I'm afraid if you delay all the slots will be taken up and you may miss this opportunity forever.
To your health, wealth and happiness,

Jason To become a member of the Mastermind membership program please sign up now at the link below.
All membership payments are handled through Clickbank. Your initial charge will be $49 for the first 30 days. You will then be charged $49.00 per month until you decide to cancel.
You can cancel the monthly membership program at anytime with no hard feelings. After canceling you won’t be charged the next month’s membership fee. ClickBank will, at its option, replace or repair any defective product within 60 days from the date of purchase. After 60 days all sales are final.
After signing up you’ll be sent the location of the private blog and forum as well as your username and password via email.

21 Day Challenge

Hi
Over the next 21 Days the Law of Attraction Mastermind Mentors will be guiding you in how to use your innate and automatic power of manifestation to create an extra $500.
We'll be sending more informational audio, video and blog posts each day so stay tuned for our emails.
You may want to bookmark our blog as well to keep update on new information!
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The 21-Day Manifestation Challenge - Day 1
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$500.
That's the goal.
Does the idea of using LOA to get an extra $500 seem hard to you? It's not, really. After going through this Challenge and getting better at LOA it will seem easy and that number will seem incredibly small. 
That's when you start adding zeros to the number and doing it again!
Why not more? Why didn't we create this challenge to manifest a million? Or, $50,000?
Because, that would bring up too much RESISTANCE. See, the reason we don't have things is because we are actually PUSHING them away... that means we are RESISTING them.
It means that you have negative beliefs, thoughts and feelings in regards to money (or whatever else you are trying to manifest). 
Those negative thoughts/feelings/beliefs KEEP it away from you. 
By keeping the amount small we allow you to practice this while only bringing up a tiny amount of resistance.
It's no lie that you can have what you want.
So, sometime during this 21-day course, if you read our emails and follow the instructions you will have an extra $500.
That extra $500 may come in the form of:
* Unexpected discounts on stuff you need to buy. (Ex: You need a computer for work. You shop around and have your eye on a $1500 computer. You are debating whether or not to get it... a few days later, a friend calls and asks you if you know anyone who needs a computer. They tell you they have a great computer, similar to the one you were looking at for only $1000. Most people would write that off as a coincidence BUT it's not. It's the Law at work. If you appreciate it, you will experience it more).
* You may get an unexpected bonus from work.
* Someone who owes you money from long ago will suddenly decide to pay you.
* A business idea works out to create more than you expected.
* Or, any combination of those combined to create an extra $500 or more...
Your first assignment is to decide...
What You Are Going To Do With That Extra Money!
You can do whatever you want with that money BUT I'm going to suggest you use part of it to reward yourself in some way. Maybe you treat yourself and a loved one to a great restaurant.
Or, you buy something you wouldn't normally buy yourself.
In short, REWARD yourself for a job well done.
And, watch the "Eerie Video" at:
Follow those instructions and  look for your next lesson tomorrow! It will be titled, "The 21-Day Manifestation Challenge: Day 2"
Jason
The Law of Attraction Mastermind.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Why is There No Character?


What is Character?
    Some people don't understand the difference between character and personality.  I have to laugh because some of the people who calim to train people in character have no idea.  Most people who get into trianing others to improve their character are actually trianng people to change their personality.  Personality is what makes you unique. It is your likes and dislikes, mannerisms, social skills, etc.  It has little to do with character.  Character is behavior. How you behave. It is your beliefs and thought, core values. For example, everyone agrees we should not murder or steal from eachother. That's character.  Friendly, nice, outgoing, those are personality traits.
     Some people believe that you are friendlier, nicer, or more outgoing then you are a sure success.  Well, in a way this is true.  If you are friendly just so you can con someone out of their money, you are nothing more than a 'nice' theif.  So we really need to pay closer attention to the character others display.  we all need to become somewhat of a people watcher.  You can learn alot from watching how others interact with others.
     Character is so important in business today.  People can sell all day long, but if they are pushy, won,t take no for answer, harrassing, or spammy they will destroy themselves and their business's reputation.  That business who believes in hiring aggressive sales people who believe in the 'hard sell' are lying to themselves.  They may make millions working that way, but not for long.  People get tired and angry when treated this way.  Have you ever wandered why your customer service reps are stressed out because of all the foul language and disrespect coming from the customer?  It,s because you have not trained your sales force to have positive moral character,  if you have a high turn over in your customer service reps, this is most likely the problem.
There are ways to improve employee retention, customer referrals, and repeat business.  But you will have to listen to the show to find out. I will be posting more about this subject later as well so stay tuned.

    Friday, March 18, 2011

    Setting Personal Development Goals Will Lead To Life Success




    The role of Personal Development and Self Improvement is to help you achieve your goals in life. Both are designed to give you the skills you need to achieve whatever it is that you want to achieve. But can personal development or self improvement really improve your life situations?
    Well, the purpose of both is to do just that. They are both just tools that are used to ensure you will succeed in your chosen life areas. They are designed to help you become happier on the inside and more satisfied with what you have on the outside in any are you chose to apply them!
    So how do you start to set goals that truly lead to self improvement, more freedom, happiness and a better lifestyle for you and your family and ultimately more success? This question is not simple to answer because success means different things to different people. Therefore, if you want to become successful you must first have a clear understanding of what success means to you!
    A fantastic way to get a clear on what success means for you is to ask yourself the question, "what would I do if I knew I couldn't fail?" Let your mind roam freely and immerse yourself in your inner vision. This vision will give you the clue that you need to unravel the mystery of success.
    At an early age every human being knows what they want to do with their lives. We develop dreams and ambitions at a very early age. However as we grow older we are conditioned to believe that these dreams are not possible or are mere fantasies of our imagination. We are told to get an education, a good job, get married, have kids, a mortgage and holiday once a year with our family. By the time most people reach their mid twenties they have all but given up on their dreams or even forgotten what those dreams are. They have become conditioned into believing that they are incapable of achieving what they want in life. This fundamental belief forms the foundation of their self image and the rest of their mental attitudes are build upon it!
    It is the role of personal development and self improvement to remove these conditioned mental attitudes from your inner mind and free you to pursue the life course that you chose for yourself. Through the use of personal development and self improvement you can begin today to remove mental conditioning that you received from well-meaning family, peers and teachers. In addition you will also be directed to remove all those negative mental attitudes that have been given to you by not so well-meaning people and those you have developed yourself through negative life experiences. This is not always an easy journey nor is it always enjoyable but the rewards that you receive are a thousand times the effort required.
    The freedom that you can experience from removing just one negative mental and negative emotional pattern is akin to the feeling of rest and tranquility you feel after extreme physical exercise. Removing numerous negative mental attitudes and emotional stress from your mind and body is a feeling and experience that is truly hard to describe to someone who has never experienced it themselves.
    Jesus Christ said, "seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you": Matthew 6:33. By removing the negative mental and emotional attitudes from your mind you free yourself to reach your goals. Let me explain.
    For instance you may have a desire to be wealthy and thus set a personal development goal to become financially free. There are thousands of different ways to achieve this goal. There are thousands of methods you could follow and plans you could set in motion that would bring you closer to this goal. Millions of people have gone from rags to riches. So, why does following a plan work for one person and the same plan will not work for another?
    It is due entirely to the difference in attitude and mental conditioning!
    There are at your disposal numerous personal development and self improvement methods that are designed to help you achieve this goal. Now these tools and methods are not designed to show you the way to become financially free but instead are designed to free you from your own inner resistance to being financially free. Many people think this is a waste of time and would prefer to be given step by step instructions to build financial wealth and I was once one of them. Yet however hard I tried and no matter how many plans and formulas I followed my financial situation actually grow worse.
    Why was this? Were the plans I was following just not good enough to create wealth? Were the people peddling these rags to riches methods merely conning me out of my money? Was gaining wealth just pure luck like winning the lottery?
    The answer to all of the above questions is no!
    The plans I followed had worked for thousands and made them rich! The people selling me the products and methods had all made their fortunes using the very same techniques they were trying to teach me! I later found out that gaining wealth had nothing to do with luck!
    It wasn't that these things were not good enough to produce the wealth I craved it was that I THOUGHT I wasn't good enough. When you hold a negative self image and have a negative view of yourself and your abilities it is very difficulty to achieve success no matter how much effort you put into it! This is why it is of paramount importance to first remove the negative conditioning that is holding you back in life.
    Your attitude, which is only composed of thoughts and feelings, is responsible for your actions. Thought is the creator of action! Every action you perform, no matter how small or big, first begins in your mind as a thought. Each thought begins as a feeling. Think of when you met your last partner. You first felt the attraction. Then you had the thought that you would like to meet them. Then you performed some action to make that happen. Think of the last time you went out socializing. You had the feeling that you would like to have some fun, or be with your friends, were feeling lonely etc. Then you had the thought. Then you performed the action.
    If your actions are motivated by your thoughts and feelings and your attitude is composed of thoughts and feelings do you think you could succeed at a given task if you hold a negative mental attitude about it or your ability to succeed at it?
    Once you embrace personal development and begin to use any of the myriad of self improvement tools to remove your negative mental attitudes you will naturally find yourself becoming more successful in life. You actions will be more positive and you will unconsciously perform the correct actions that will lead you to success. I am sure you can know see how important it is to set some personal development goals. Not only will you see improvement in your self, you will also see many symptoms of success added unto you!
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    Thursday, March 17, 2011

    O2 Breakthrough Part 3



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    Self Development Is Critical to MLM Success



    Most of us tend to have challenges when attempting to do something new. This is especially true when you are trying to promote or brand yourself to other MLM leads or business prospects. It takes a lot to conquer your own self; you have to learn to deal with the negative and master it. "Don't put up the walls. The same wall that keeps out disappointment keeps out happiness. Take down the walls go for the experience, let it teach you" Jim Rohn - self development author and speaker.
    What does it take to realize success, learn mental toughness, and master your own philosophy, the sort of person that people want to pursue and believe in, the leader people look up to and will stand behind. Becoming the successful person that you envision yourself to be takes a combination of things. One, it takes the willingness to change. At some point you have to take a stand against where you are falling short or the areas of life that are giving you the most difficulty and assess the situation. This is easier said than done, but it often is what helps you find the breakthrough instead of the breakdown.
    In order to accomplish this, the main uncertainty might be" What is holding me back and what do I have to let go of?" Once this is figured out, the next step is the commitment to work on these areas, create a plan and stick with it until the new positive actions become habit. Whether in MLM or any other occupation, we all have to face this truth if we want to achieve more out of our lives. Secondly, investing in yourself is of utmost importance. Re-directing where your funds goes and channeling it towards learning in the form of seminars, self development courses, and live conferences are all building blocks to success.
    A few books I highly recommend to help with becoming success minded are How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, and The Pursuit: Success is Hidden in the Journey by Dexter Yager. These are two of several books that have had a profound transformation of how I thought and my overall outlook and mind-set towards life. Also I recommend reading as much as you can everyday.
    For example, Brian Tracy, a highly successful person in business and a self-help author recommends reading at least an hour in the field you wish to develop in each day. Whether it is in sales, internet marketing, how to recruit MLM leads or any other profession that is important that involves a high level of competition, this is wonderful advice because in a short period of time, you will become the expert in your field.
    This is just some basics to getting on track. The reward for implementing these ideas will pay huge dividends and while the bulk of people will probably just quit. Success is yours as long as you do not quit!
    Your success Matters!
    Lee Reffel

    Wednesday, March 16, 2011

    O2 Breakthrough Part 2

    High Oxygen Radical Absorbance Capacity Foods Yield Anti-aging Properties

    Oxygen Radical Absorbance Capacity (ORAC) is a test tube analysis that measures the total antioxidant power of foods and other chemical substances.
    First research reports suggest that eating high-ORAC fruits and vegetables--such as spinach and blueberries--may help slow the aging processes in both body and brain.
    ARS Administrator, Floyd P. Horn, states, "If these findings are borne out in further research, young and middle-aged people may be able to reduce risk of diseases of aging--including senility--simply by adding high-ORAC foods to their diets."
    The studies revealed high-ORAC foods:
    o Raised the antioxidant power of human blood 10 to 25 percent
    o Prevented some loss of long-term memory and learning ability in middle-aged rats
    o Maintained the ability of brain cells in middle-aged rats to respond to a chemical stimulus--a function that normally decreases with age
    o Protected rats' tiny blood vessels--capillaries--against oxygen damage
    The health community has long held the thesis that oxidative damage culminates in many of the maladies of aging. The evidence has stimulated sales of antioxidant vitamins. However, the early studies have mixed results.
    Nutritionist Ronald L. Prior posits, "If we can show some relationship between ORAC intake and health outcome in people, I think we may reach a point where the ORAC value will become a new standard for good antioxidant protection."
    In a second study, men and women had a 13- to 15-percent increase in the antioxidant power of their blood after doubling their daily fruit and vegetable intake compared to what they consumed before the study. Just doubling intake, without regard to ORAC scores of the fruits and vegetables, more than doubled the number of ORAC units the volunteers consumed, Prior said.
    While the research jury is still weighing the evidence, one company has hit the market place with a product, few can resist. Xoçai(TM) has capitalized on the natural antioxidant properties of chocolate and combined it with Blueberries and Acai. Acai is a plant with the highest antioxidant rated fruit on earth.
    This product is 'a dream come true' for chocolate lovers everywhere. Xoçai(TM) blends the world's best antioxidant ingredients into a delicious dark chocolate beverage, rich dark chocolate nugget, and health-packed chocolate protein bar. They are truly unique! Xoçai(TM) claims a 3,120 ORAC per 12 oz. nugget of dark chocolate. Each Xoçai(TM) protein bar contains an astonishing 4,066 ORAC units! And because Xoçai(TM) is made from whole, natural foods, its antioxidants are in a form your body can easily absorb and use. (ORAC tests conducted by the USDA and Brunswick Laboratories.).
    This product seems like the ideal way to 'Have your cake (candy) and eat it too," with healthy benefits of antioxidants and satisfying the chocolate lover's palate.
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    Sunday, February 13, 2011

    What Are Friends For?

    In this day and age we must be careful who we associate with. I grew up in a wealthy home with a relatively sheltered upbringing. It was not until I had my own children that I discovered how hard it is to find true friends today.

    I was very uneasy allowing my children to go over to other people's houses. So as a family we decided that we would not do that. My children would be taught from a young age to watch out for who they were around. So we introduced them to our friends with children. This has worked out perfectly. We have control while teaching them how to interacct with others. We have a controlled environment.

    My mother says we are crazy. But I saw what hell other children had to go through because parents did not have the time to teach their children in a controlled environment. Now I have a 14 year old.  She tells me everything going on with her.  She asks me for advice.

    The other day she was telling me how her day went.  she was telling me that she saw a little girl being picked on and she reported it to an authority and the authority thanked her.  she asked me what she should do and gave her some advice on a few other minor prblems she was having.  Later in the week, she told me the advice really worked for her.  She actually thanked me.  Now, it is not always so easy with may children, but we try and remmber that the parents are in charge. They are theere to guide, guard, and direct children in a safe path. 

    It is really nice for a 14 year old to come up to her mom and say, "Thanks, Mom, you.re a great friend."  I love to respond,  "What are friends for?"

    Tuesday, January 25, 2011

    Handling The Information Overload

    I set my in advance.

    In other words, I set goals, outcomes, or intentions for what I want.  I ask myself, "What do I want in this situation?"  As a result of that clearly defined end result, the mind takes over and prunes the weeds for you: Everything that is relevant to my goal sticks; Everything that is unimportant to it gets pulled oout like the weeds in a garden.

    For example, when I was writing my latest e-book, "How To Get Paid Blogging," I was consciously as well as unconsciously on the alert for anything and everything that pertained to the websites, and notes pertaing to getting paid to blog, which will be out very soon keep watching for it.  Anything else rarely got my attention.
    Each day when I checked my email box and saw several hundred messages, I was able to move through them quickly by asking myself, "Does this have anything to do with getting paid to blog?" If it did, I read it. If it didn't, I pushed it aside or deleted it.

    The same thing happened when people would send me e-books for my review, or when I would get offers to buy more e-books. I love e-books. I think they are the wave of the future. But during the time I was researching and writing Get Paid To Blog, unless the e-book somehow related to that project, I put it aside. If it's not part of what I wanted, my end-result, my goals, I don't want to waste time looking at it. Period.

    And that exact same process helps me get through all the information available on the Net. While there may be millions of websites online, maybe only a handful of them are of interest to me when I'm focused on writing Getting Paid to Blog. Those handful are all I want to know about, at least for now.

    So there's the key to handling information overload: Set yourmind in advance. A goal. A clear outcome. An end-result. And let it be your goal, your guiding light through the maze of information flooding your mind and fighting for your attention.

    By knowing what you want, you create a natural filtering process that eliminates virtually everything not related to achieving your goals.  If you have problems knowing what you want I have a few books you can get and I will list them below, or fell free to tweet me or email me.

    To be honest, you may still be distracted from time to time. That's human nature. Forgive yourself, enjoy yourself, and get back to work.  you may have reset your mind by rewriting what you want and your priorities.  The more you can stick with your goals, the more you can survive the blessing and the curse of the Internet: Information Overload.

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